How often does it happen, that you get a friendly and fun encounter with someone you have met once several years ago, with whom you shagged like a rabbit with and never contacted after? In general I don't have a grudge against anyone I've slept with, but rarely do I get to joke about it neither with the person concerned. Most of them are finnish and I have a feeling that for a Finnish man sex is a serious, if not embarrassing, matter. This is especially noticeable if your incidence happened to stay in the level of so called "one night stand": If you ever happend to meet him/her again, it is very likely to be an uneasy situation.
For me, I've noticed, this is rarely the case. Not only because I'm very much friends with a majority of men I've ever slept with, but also I tend to think, that as I've been in the most intimate connection with this man, it would be very hypocrite to start pretending a modest stranger. Instead, I have a (perhaps possessive) tendency to think, that I know him already (atleast I've seen him VERY closely) so what's there to hide anymore. And therefore today I noticed, that meeting someone (I've slept with) with a similar attitude makes me feel very warm inside. or excited. a bit.
(maybe also the fact, that it happened in a beautiful countrystyle wedding, we had the summer, the sauna and the lake, he was the bestman and a countrysideboy ..added a few excitement points to it as well)
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